How to Be Lovable

Do you want to be irresistibly lovable? Make people like you the moment they set eyes on you? Have lots of friends who think the world of you and love you to bits? Read on...

Steps

1. Go for the cute look. Make sure you're clean (of course),and not smothered in makeup. A little lip gloss and mascara, and that's it. For clothes, just wear anything you want-but make sure your clothes fit you, are clean, and compliment your shape. Keep your nails, hair, skin and teeth in good condition, Remember to stay clean and take showers/baths.

2. Be the nicest you can. Treat everyone like you would treat your best friend. Don't insult people or pick on them, and stick up for people who are being picked on. Don't get into a punch-up - just tell people to leave them alone. Keep your promises, don't be rude, and never gossip about someone.

3. Whatever you're feeling, put a smile on your face. Don't stop being nice to someone or ignore people because your laptop broke down yesterday-put on a sweet smile and act normal. If you absolutely can't act normal, at least explain to people what's wrong. "Sorry if I snap. It's just that my laptop broke down yesterday and it had all of my homework on it!" is much better than, "Just leave me alone!". People will understand.

4. Get on the right side of your teachers. Hand in your homework when you should, don't talk in class or pass notes, and try hard. If you actually concentrate you can end up learning some really useful or interesting stuff-and you have the weekends, break times, and before and after school to talk to your mates. So tone it down and listen.

5. Be sensible and level headed. This will earn you respect and liking from older people such as parents, teachers, older students and other adults. In an emergency just think about what the most logical thing to do would be, and do it. Stay calm and don't scream or rush about.


Tips

* Be loyal. Don't jump from one friend to another gossiping about them-- this will make all your friends dislike you, and will lose you your trust and give you a reputation.

* Don't panic if you don't get it right away. Do each step thoroughly and carefully before moving on to the next.

* Don't get excited and rush around.

* Do not do something to someone that you don't want to be done to you!

* Do not be mean to others even though people are mean to them.

* If someone insults you or says something hurting don't argue back with them just act like you're fine with that, because do you know what, it shows who your friends are and those who don't like you are just jealous.

* The most important thing is, accepting, loving and respecting yourself unconditionally. This is a very subtle phenomenon and when practiced steadfastly, it invariably sows the seeds of true love and respect for you in the hearts of others.


Warnings

* You may still be disliked or envied by some. Don't let this get to you-just be nice and try your best.

* Don't let one person let you down, there are plenty of other people out there.

* Don't ask someone out just to make someone else jealous. Both sides end up getting hurt. It's not like the movies.

* Don't get taken advantage of, there's such thing as being too nice for your own good.

* Its OK to say no to something you don't want to do just let people down gently!

* Don´t change your personality to much, be careful not to push your feelings away.


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